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Nanak taught that rituals, religious ceremonies or empty worship is of little
use and Sikhs are discouraged from fasting or going on pilgrimages.[36] However,
during the period of the later gurus, and due to increased institutionalisation
of the religion, some ceremonies and rites did arise. Sikhism is not a
proselytizing religion and most Sikhs do not make active attempts to gain
converts. However, converts to Sikhism are welcomed, although there is no formal
conversion ceremony.
Upon a child's birth, the Gurū Granth Sāhib is opened at a random point and
the child is named using the first letter on the top left-hand corner of the
left page. All boys are given the middle name or surname Singh, and all girls are given the
middle name or surname Kaur.[37] Sikhs are
joined in wedlock through the anand kāraj ceremony.
Sikhs marry when they are of a sufficient age (child marriage is taboo), and
without regard for the future spouse's caste or descent. The marriage ceremony
is performed in the company of the Gurū Granth Sāhib; around which the couple
circles four times. After the ceremony is complete, the husband and wife are
considered "a single soul in two bodies."[38]
According to Sikh religious rites, neither husband nor wife are permitted to
divorce. A Sikh couple that wishes to divorce may be able to do so in a civil
court – but this is not condoned.[39] Upon death,
the body of a Sikh is usually cremated. If this is not possible, any means of
disposing the body may be employed. The kīrtan sōhilā and ardās
prayers are performed during the funeral ceremony (known as antim
sanskār).[40]
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